New Year’s Sex Resolutions #RomanticSexGeek #sexpositive

Most of us make resolutions to eat less, eat healthier, workout more, get more rest, learn a new skill, be kinder, more assertive, etc. But what about our sex lives? What if we made a sexual resolution relating to our sex lives? In the same way you might evaluate your diet or workout schedule, why … Read more

Last Minute Naughty Gift Recommendations from the #RomanticSexGeek

    Spice up the Holidays with Naughty Gifts for your lover. Need a little inspiration? Want to try something new? Interested in adding a little kink to your love life without going over the top? Or maybe you’re a traveler, or your loved one is a traveler, and need a little discreet travel toy … Read more

Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek

Aside from the sex-positive blog articles I’ll continue to post here on Burnt Stilettos, I’ve decided to start a new column: Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek in my newsletter. This column will occasionally appear on this blog in addition to each monthly issue of my newsletter: Kathy’s Hot News, if you’re not a member, click HERE … Read more

Secret Destiny by Kathy Kulig #BookBlitz #erotic #giveaway

SECRET DESTINY is about to go on tour to celebrate this new release and to kick off this hot new erotic contemporary romance series: Sins of Odyssey. Book 1 is Destiny Noir’s (aka Paula Chappell) and Darius Logan’s steamy story. They have an unusual romance. They’re relationship is hot and intense, but it does have … Read more

In the News: BDSM Writers Conference Aug. 18th-21st

It’s just around the corner…The next BDSM Writers Conference hosted by Dr. Charley Ferrer. August 18th-21st If you’re an author of erotica, erotic romance, a reader of the genre or have a curiosity of the BDSM lifestyle then this conference is for you! I attended a couple years ago, the first year Dr. Charley hosted … Read more

How to Add Kink to Spice up Your Love Life #Relationships #Sexandlove

Kink and Fetish-play have become HOT topics and have hit the mainstream public. It’s long overdue if you ask me. More couples are thinking about introducing Kink and Fetish-play into their bedroom, but are finding a few road blocks along the way. There are hundreds of fetishes to explore for one. Some fetishes are tame … Read more

#Compersion vs Jealousy in Poly & Non-Monogamy Relationships

  Compersion. Hmmm. I have to admit with all the research I’ve done on the topic of poly and non-monogamy, I hadn’t heard this term until recently. Although I knew of the experience, what it means, what a couple feels while in poly/non-monogamous relationships, but didn’t know there was a term. As a writer, I … Read more