New Year’s Sex Resolutions #RomanticSexGeek #sexpositive

Most of us make resolutions to eat less, eat healthier, workout more, get more rest, learn a new skill, be kinder, more assertive, etc. But what about our sex lives? What if we made a sexual resolution relating to our sex lives? In the same way you might evaluate your diet or workout schedule, why … Read more

Last Minute Naughty Gift Recommendations from the #RomanticSexGeek

    Spice up the Holidays with Naughty Gifts for your lover. Need a little inspiration? Want to try something new? Interested in adding a little kink to your love life without going over the top? Or maybe you’re a traveler, or your loved one is a traveler, and need a little discreet travel toy … Read more

Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek

Aside from the sex-positive blog articles I’ll continue to post here on Burnt Stilettos, I’ve decided to start a new column: Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek in my newsletter. This column will occasionally appear on this blog in addition to each monthly issue of my newsletter: Kathy’s Hot News, if you’re not a member, click HERE … Read more

Sex Down South #SexPositive Conference

Just Come… I’m a bit late in posting this news. Sorry! I like to announce events that promote and celebrate sex positive topics. I’ve been deep in the writer’s cave working on projects. If anyone knows of any events like this, please feel free to contact me via this blog or my website and I’ll be … Read more

Sexting Horror Stories #sexpositive #sext

Sexting is the new foreplay. ‘Sexts’ or ‘Sexting’ can be fun and a way to entice your sexual relationship, but common sense is often ignored. It’s hard not to hear about the dangers and repercussions that sexting have caused. Politicians, teens, and just average people who for some reason or another sent a sexy or … Read more

All Condoms Are Not Created Equal #sexpositive #sexfacts

Condoms have come a long way since their invention centuries ago. I see tons of ads for Viagra. That’s fine, no problem with that. But where are all the ads for condoms? Considering Viagra was first offered in 1998 and condoms have been around since the Ancient Egyptians, and probably earlier, why don’t we see … Read more

How to Add Kink to Spice up Your Love Life #Relationships #Sexandlove

Kink and Fetish-play have become HOT topics and have hit the mainstream public. It’s long overdue if you ask me. More couples are thinking about introducing Kink and Fetish-play into their bedroom, but are finding a few road blocks along the way. There are hundreds of fetishes to explore for one. Some fetishes are tame … Read more

Consent Summit: By the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Join the NCSF for an all-day event of workshops and panel discussions on consent. 10am – 6pm on April 23rd in Seattle, WA at the Center for Sex-Positive Culture, 1602 15th Ave W, Seattle, WA Sponsored by the Seattle Erotic Arts Festival and the Foundation and Center for Sex-Positive Culture Tristan Taormino will give the Keynote … Read more

A Sensual Geek Exploring a #Sex-Positive World

SEX. It never fails to create all kinds of controversy and fantasies. As a writer of erotic fiction for over 12 years, I’ve seen a shift toward the positive when it comes to sexual expression—great news! Challenging society’s negative attitude about sexuality in the written word and in our lives is not easy. I’ve knocked … Read more