New Year’s Sex Resolutions #RomanticSexGeek #sexpositive

Most of us make resolutions to eat less, eat healthier, workout more, get more rest, learn a new skill, be kinder, more assertive, etc. But what about our sex lives? What if we made a sexual resolution relating to our sex lives? In the same way you might evaluate your diet or workout schedule, why … Read more

Last Minute Naughty Gift Recommendations from the #RomanticSexGeek

    Spice up the Holidays with Naughty Gifts for your lover. Need a little inspiration? Want to try something new? Interested in adding a little kink to your love life without going over the top? Or maybe you’re a traveler, or your loved one is a traveler, and need a little discreet travel toy … Read more

Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek

Aside from the sex-positive blog articles I’ll continue to post here on Burnt Stilettos, I’ve decided to start a new column: Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek in my newsletter. This column will occasionally appear on this blog in addition to each monthly issue of my newsletter: Kathy’s Hot News, if you’re not a member, click HERE … Read more

Sex Down South #SexPositive Conference

Just Come… I’m a bit late in posting this news. Sorry! I like to announce events that promote and celebrate sex positive topics. I’ve been deep in the writer’s cave working on projects. If anyone knows of any events like this, please feel free to contact me via this blog or my website and I’ll be … Read more

Sexting Horror Stories #sexpositive #sext

Sexting is the new foreplay. ‘Sexts’ or ‘Sexting’ can be fun and a way to entice your sexual relationship, but common sense is often ignored. It’s hard not to hear about the dangers and repercussions that sexting have caused. Politicians, teens, and just average people who for some reason or another sent a sexy or … Read more

All Condoms Are Not Created Equal #sexpositive #sexfacts

Condoms have come a long way since their invention centuries ago. I see tons of ads for Viagra. That’s fine, no problem with that. But where are all the ads for condoms? Considering Viagra was first offered in 1998 and condoms have been around since the Ancient Egyptians, and probably earlier, why don’t we see … Read more

#NewRelease: Another Dark Tides series Book – Storm Surge by Celia Ashley

Named after a goddess who turns her lovers to stone, an insular New England coastal town holds more secrets than it can keep… We’re interviewing author Celia Ashley today as she celebrates the release another book in her Dark Tides series, Storm Surge. If you like sexy, romantic, paranormal romance then you should check this … Read more

#Sensual Living, #Sex & #Love

Sensual Living is often associated with sex. All those heated kisses, touching, sensual massages and lovemaking. Sure that’s part of it, but there’s more to Sensual Living and Loving. As you strive to become a more sensual being in all aspects of your life, your sexual experiences will become more vibrant with a new heightened … Read more

A Sensual Geek Exploring a #Sex-Positive World

SEX. It never fails to create all kinds of controversy and fantasies. As a writer of erotic fiction for over 12 years, I’ve seen a shift toward the positive when it comes to sexual expression—great news! Challenging society’s negative attitude about sexuality in the written word and in our lives is not easy. I’ve knocked … Read more