New Year’s Sex Resolutions #RomanticSexGeek #sexpositive

Most of us make resolutions to eat less, eat healthier, workout more, get more rest, learn a new skill, be kinder, more assertive, etc. But what about our sex lives? What if we made a sexual resolution relating to our sex lives? In the same way you might evaluate your diet or workout schedule, why … Read more

Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek

Aside from the sex-positive blog articles I’ll continue to post here on Burnt Stilettos, I’ve decided to start a new column: Sex Tips from the #RomanticSexGeek in my newsletter. This column will occasionally appear on this blog in addition to each monthly issue of my newsletter: Kathy’s Hot News, if you’re not a member, click HERE … Read more

Sex Down South #SexPositive Conference

Just Come… I’m a bit late in posting this news. Sorry! I like to announce events that promote and celebrate sex positive topics. I’ve been deep in the writer’s cave working on projects. If anyone knows of any events like this, please feel free to contact me via this blog or my website and I’ll be … Read more

Sexting Horror Stories #sexpositive #sext

Sexting is the new foreplay. ‘Sexts’ or ‘Sexting’ can be fun and a way to entice your sexual relationship, but common sense is often ignored. It’s hard not to hear about the dangers and repercussions that sexting have caused. Politicians, teens, and just average people who for some reason or another sent a sexy or … Read more

All Condoms Are Not Created Equal #sexpositive #sexfacts

Condoms have come a long way since their invention centuries ago. I see tons of ads for Viagra. That’s fine, no problem with that. But where are all the ads for condoms? Considering Viagra was first offered in 1998 and condoms have been around since the Ancient Egyptians, and probably earlier, why don’t we see … Read more

Things You Don’t Ask Your Bartender/ #Erotic Writer #Writerslife

Some of my readers may know I work part time as a bartender. I’ve never mentioned that I write erotica/erotic romance to the patrons or co-workers at the bar. But after a search on social media, (one of my co-workers friended me on Facebook) the secret is out. Word spreads, and now a number of … Read more